16 February 2009

Valentines Day

Got 1 card from the one I love, he cooked the meal, watched a few movies, did a few things and was very happy and loved. Simple but really special.

Flying the nest

I have finaly done it. I have left home a little ahead of the law, but still alive and well. There are so many reasons why a young person wants to leave home and I am not going to tell you mine. All I have to be thankful for is that the parents in my life taught me how to fend for myself (even though they may think I have to depend on them in order to survive). These things are:
1)To cook dinner
2)To clean a house (very useful as a means of cash in hand jobs)
3)To wash and Iron clothes
4)To buy enough food for a week on a budget (and to fit 5 a day)
5)How to support oneself financialy

The benefits of leaving home are even better!!!
1)Privacy
2)You can go out to wherever you want
3)You can go to bed whenever you want
4)You can stay out to whenever you want
5)Watch whatever TV Program you want
6)No one interrupts you in the bathroom
7)No one interrupts you when you are working/Studying
8)No one tells you what to do
9)You can cook dinner whenver you want it
10)You can have whoever you want over without arranging it
11)You can do whatever you want and not be told off or grounded
12)You can live life at your pace
13)You don't have to wait for anybody to get ready/get out the bathroom/leave
14)You can be as loud as you want
15)You can wear whatever you want without the judgements
16)You can do something without checking the parents to do it like getting a tattoo/piercing/dying your hair
17)You face the consequences properly, they are not enforced by your parents
18)You can do anything considered taboo without the guilt/embaressment
19)You are your own boss and responsibility
20)No one confiscates/steals your things/reads your post/complains about how you live

Leaving home is a great way to establish you are an adult and to show you that your happiness is what and how you make it.